VICTORIA–At his mother's prodding, the little boy looks in the mirror and speaks to the face gazing back at him.
"I'm
just as good as anyone else. Don't have to be better. Don't have to be
worse. But I'm just as good as anybody else – and I won't ever let
anybody tell me I'm not."
It was no idle exercise for
Canadian runner Gary Reed. His family was dirt-poor, lived in a trailer
park, and relied on food banks to eat. Reed is of mixed race – white
mother and black father – which made him something of an oddity in
rural B.C. He was raised by his mom after the marriage broke up when he
was a baby.
The playground can be a cruel place, but Mary Reed
couldn't stand the thought of her son Gary and daughter Nicole thinking
they weren't good enough.
"They felt like they were less and it's
just from kids bullying or talking like that," recalls Mary Reed. "I
used to take the mirror and make them look in the mirror and go, `I'm
just as good as anybody else' until they gained that confidence.
"They say sticks and stones can break my bones and words can never hurt me, but that's a lie. Words can be very hurtful."
The hurt Gary Reed is feeling on this beautiful, crisp spring morning is purely physical.